From as far as I can remember I've been dictated to , on how to act as a girl ie. a lady is seen not heard and for a little ADD-diagnosed girl , I was the biggest contrast , hence my blog's name , because to be loud , carefree and blunt , almost bordering on rudeness , are all male traits right ?
Oh but of course , if you are to follow all the womanly traits passed down in each generation in almost every normal family, unless you're were raised by hippies , then it case you are pretty screwed , as everything for you's been happy-go-lucky.Which if I think about it more , means you celebrate uniqueness which is something we all subconsciously strive for. Be it in your career, family and almost always with your peers ,you wish to be known for that special something, which only you are good at.
Now why is it that my uniqueness seems to bother most people , and it's now becoming a burden?
Is my wit,personality and all-round energy so strong or similar to that of a 'man's' to the point that Im mistaken for a lesbian?
Is it so foreign for a woman to be all things radical without being hanged for it?
We so often blame 'men' for chauvinism and all that goes with it and yet we ourselves are prejudicial!
I embrace my noise and energy , and will continue , yes I'll struggle to find a 'man' who can handle all this ,but then again who am I to settle for anything below my standards.
When searching for a partner , find yourself the best version of you out there,insecurity will therefore be omitted in yall's contract.
So if Im to settle and there's a pure tiger-catcher out there,know that you'll have your hands full...
For I will not be maimed and submissively taken away.
Viva Le Raucous!
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